Question: On the day that your child was born, what kinds of
hopes and dreams did you wish for them? To be a great leader? Perhaps a great
actor author or athlete? Maybe it was as simple as hoping they follow your path
in life or depending on the person, praying they don’t follow in your
footsteps.
In any case, despite the various end results we all fantasize
about, the common thread they all share is the simple desire to want what is
best for our children. Those desires have a tendency to evolve into a fear of being
inadequate, and ultimately the roadblock to our child’s pathway to success.
As a result, corporations feed off of those aspirations in
order to convince us that their product/service/institution will give our
children the greatest chance of becoming a success. We respond to their advertisements and scare
tactics with our wallets. There are quite a few examples of this that cross
many child-focused industries, but I’d like to briefly focus on one: The YourBaby Can Read Programs (YBCR).
YBCR is a series of videos, books and flashcards that are
supposedly tailor designed to the thought patterns of infants, in order to give
them a head start on literacy comprehension as early as nine months old. This
is my well-planned, scientific rendition of the process:
This must be what the E-Trade baby used |
Here is the infomercial:
If you watch the infomercial closely enough, you’ll see how
they attempt to implant that fear thing I was talking about earlier. Viewers
will observe these babies doing seemingly amazing literary feats and panic
after realizing that their own child is not doing half of those things.
How is my child going to become the POTUS if he/she can’t
read Charlotte’s web at the age of 3? If my infant cannot kick their legs when
shown the word, “kicking” on a flashcard, how can I expect them to win the
Nobel and/or Pulitzer?
We again respond to these emotions with our wallets and convince
ourselves that the only way we can ensure the success of our child (and
validation as a parent) is by purchasing the entire YBCR system.
Well, before you hand over your credit card information, you
might want to hold off until you read the rest of the paragraph. You know that
saying, “If something is too good to be true, it probably is”? Well, apparently
the Federal Trade Commission thought the same thing about YBCR and hit them
with a lawsuit to the tune of about $185 million because of misrepresentation
of their product.
What is the lesson can we learn from this situation? In a nutshell, before you purchase any product that promises you grandiose results, do your research by checking product reviews, and check sites like the Better Business Bureau (www.BBB.org) to make sure the company is legitimate.
There are plenty of fun, low cost ways to help enhance your child's reading ability. Here are a few articles that might be useful:
http://www.icanteachmychild.com/2012/02/10-steps-to-teaching-your-child-to-read/
http://www2.ed.gov/parents/read/resources/edpicks.jhtml
http://www.familyconnect.org/parentsite.asp?SectionID=75&TopicID=351&DocumentID=3913
Question: Did you purchase or were ever tempted to purchase an infomercial-based product that promised to enhance your child's ability?
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What is the lesson can we learn from this situation? In a nutshell, before you purchase any product that promises you grandiose results, do your research by checking product reviews, and check sites like the Better Business Bureau (www.BBB.org) to make sure the company is legitimate.
There are plenty of fun, low cost ways to help enhance your child's reading ability. Here are a few articles that might be useful:
http://www.icanteachmychild.com/2012/02/10-steps-to-teaching-your-child-to-read/
http://www2.ed.gov/parents/read/resources/edpicks.jhtml
http://www.familyconnect.org/parentsite.asp?SectionID=75&TopicID=351&DocumentID=3913
Also, I wrote an article highlighting the benefits of reading to your child as early as possible.
Question: Did you purchase or were ever tempted to purchase an infomercial-based product that promised to enhance your child's ability?
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I did purchase hooked on phonics - but it was almost like punishment to make them watch it. Live and learn!
ReplyDeleteIt seems that childhood has gotten so competitive now. I think some of these parents are treating their children like dog and pony shows...where they parade them out to perform.
I totally agree with you, Bonnie. I seems like noone believes in letting children grow and develop at their own pace anymore. Thanks for your input!
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